Meet your gentle companion for becoming. Joy Is My Birthright is a 60-page, memoir-inspired workbook that helps you slow down, reflect with kindness, and take small steps forward—without perfection pressure. Through short personal stories, clear prompts, and simple frameworks, you’ll move from overthinking to grounded action at your own pace.

What’s inside

• FEM Method™ — Vanessa’s signature framework for honest self-assessment and growth

• Cognitive Triangle (CBT) — a simple overview connecting thoughts, feelings, behaviors (attributed to Beck/CBT)

• Decision-Making Worksheet — adapted from Motivational Interviewing to reduce “stuck”

• Communication Styles — passive, assertive, aggressive, passive-aggressive (with examples)

• Reflection Prompts & Journaling Pages — plenty of writing space + gentle affirmations

• Definitions, References & Resources — mindfulness tools and supports (including Veteran resources)

Who it’s for

• Anyone craving a supportive, non-clinical space to reflect and make practical changes

• Overthinkers, recovering perfectionists, and “still adulting” humans

• Readers who want clear tools, not jargon

Format & delivery

• Paperback

• Mailed- Shipped Economy 5-8 business days

A kind reminder

This workbook is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for therapy.
© 2025 Vanessa Hentz. All rights reserved. FEM Method™. Im Still Adulting LLC.

FAQ 

Is this therapy?
No. This is an educational workbook created by Vanessa Hentz, LCSW. It’s not a substitute for therapy or medical advice.